We can not stop bad things from happening and we will never stop grieving because of it. If mother's could bare the pain for their daughters we would do it and gladly. A mother builds her life around her children and sometimes we are so busy building that we miss the subtle changes. A heavy heart, wiser eyes, a slight withdrawal. But when we do our heart breaks and grief becomes our close companion. We only hope that one day they will forgive us for being out place. Because we will never forgive ourselves.